Dating needy people
And don’t let your imagination get ahead of schedule.
You need to understand what you’ll do if you run into a situation that normally triggers your insecurities.
That means, sadly, those who do well at removing or masking their needs tend to get them met more often.
And, unfortunately, those who are a bit less cunning, or perhaps, simply more honest, can find themselves branded as “needy”, and face an even more difficult time in getting whatever it is they desire in life.
They start to think about wedding dresses and bridesmaid colors before the end of the first date., and already have a plan for how they’d be together in relationship.
But a guy will take a little longer as he “feels you out”.
The best way to keep yourself out of the needy/desperate trap is to make sure you’re always aware of your own value.
Take the time to cultivate a full relationship with your man.
I destroyed dozens of dating relationships before I discovered how I was sabotaging my life.
In one particularly bad situation, I waited outside a girl’s house for 4 hours for her to come home when I couldn’t reach her. and I can tell you how men experience it when they find a woman needy or insecure.
In our previous example: When he doesn’t call, you know you’ll put on a show on Netflix to distract you.
Now you know what to do to avoid the usual cascade of behaviors that might drive you crazy.A general default setting of "insecure", which translates to "be with me" all the time, without a clear understanding (for themselves or explanation to the other) of what they expect out of the time being spent together.