Dating man selfish
If this is the way he behaves, then he's definitely too self-centered to be worth dating.
One thing I noticed with guys who are super selfish is that they often make the other partner feel like they are walking on a tightrope.
If he has money to pay for the bill but tried to "lose" his wallet at the end of the date, he's too selfish to be dating anyone but himself. Superficiality and selfishness have a tendency of going hand-in-hand.
Generally speaking, people who are very superficial also have the ugly trait of dropping people the moment that things don't look as good as "they should look." It's selfish, and it's callous, but it's the truth.